Happy Friday, Voyagers! Today, I hope you remember that the best portions of your life have nothing to do with Christmas presents or all the other trappings of the season! Instead, I hope you all truly enjoy those special moments gathering with those you love! Have a wonderful weekend, and
There are seven more days until Christmas. So many of my friends and family members who are still in the “working set” are frantically preparing for the big day. Working from eight to five each day, then rushing home to cram in some holiday festivities – parties, shopping, holiday events, visiting the Christmas light displays, baking those cookies, wrapping those presents – arghhhhhhhh! The list goes on and on, and those people are STRESSED! There are simply not enough hours to fulfill all the expectations of THE BIG DAY!
I am not sure exactly what happened when I retired, but my perspective has changed. This morning I was reading an article by Josh Becker at Becoming Minimalist which included this quote:
“We waste so many days waiting for the weekend.
So many nights wanting morning.
Our lust for future comfort is the biggest thief of life.”
It occurred to me that the same is true about Christmas. We are lusting for a day which will occur in a week – and often times, we miss the pleasures that are right in front of us. The delicious morning coffee. The twinkle of the lights on our own tree. The contented sigh of the dog lying at our feet.
Don’t get me wrong. My sisters and I baked 29 dozen cookies last weekend to share with anyone who will take them. But I think it was not so much about the baking or the cookies, as it was about the laughing and being together on that day…in that moment.
I know it is easier for those of us who aren’t trying to hold down full time employment. We have the luxury of having more time to prepare. But my wish for all is that you will pay attention to the moments in each day, and not just chase blindly forward in preparation for an event which will last about 12 hours. I hope that your lust for Christmas will not be the biggest thief of your week!
Happy Friday, Voyagers! It’s been a week full of learning for me. A little challenging, a little frustrating, a lot of fun! One of the critical components of a successful retirement voyage is that you not stagnate. That you always have something that will challenge you, drive you, motivate you to get out of your recliner chair. My hope for you this weekend is that you will rekindle some interest – find some curiosity within. So how about it – what new things will you learn next?
I hope as the weekend approaches you take a moment to consider those Christmas traditions you hold dear. Are you doing things simply because you’ve “always done it that way?” Are you exhausting yourself chasing some self-imposed standard that no longer meets your needs? Instead, I would invite you to consider which activities, decorations, and traditions truly hold a special meaning for you. Pursue those! Have a peaceful and heartfelt weekend!
Happy Friday fellow Voyagers! Well, Thanksgiving has come and gone, we’ve survived Black Friday and Cyber Monday, and we’re well on our way to rushing toward the holiday where we feel the need to buy more, do more, decorate more, celebrate more. The race is on…only 25 days till the big day, and soon the papers and televisions and computer screens will be reminding you that you must hurry, hurry, hurry.
So I hope after this week’s post reminding you to see the “wonder” in things, that you’ll take a moment to slow down, take a deep breath, and be grateful for this moment ~ right now. Have a fabulous weekend!
Last night, my family went to see the movie Wonder. I hoped my two, young sons would watch the movie and leave with a renewed understanding of what it means to be kind, but I wasn’t prepared for the lesson it had for me. It is November. The season of darkness and paperwork. By November,Read…
Do you ever have one of those moments when you read something so true it gives you a kinda lump in your throat? It happened to me this morning! So even though I had a different post all ready to go, I decided to switch horses and reblog this one because it’s a
And not just for us teacher types, but for us all! In the past week, I’ve run across some very cranky people in my daily dealings!
The lady who got all bent out of shape because the line didn’t move quickly enough.
The taxi driver who rode our tail last night because his need to be first exceeded our need to be first.
The friend in the restaurant last night who “b*tched” because his french fries were only warm – not hot.
And when I read this blog this morning, it occurred to me again that we all need to recognize that
Everyone has a story
and we all need to learn to approach each other with a little bit of wonder. We get to choose. I hope the rest of your month (aw heck, the whole year) is “wonderful!”
Can you believe we’re heading into Thanksgiving already? Wasn’t it just summertime about a second ago? And before we know it, Christmas will have come and gone. In all the rush, I hope you will take a moment each morning and ask yourself two questions:
What’s really important today?
What’s not so important at all?
I wish you a peaceful weekend, taking the time to enjoy those things that really matter!