Not too many years ago, hubs told me he wanted to purchase a Corvette. Of course, the first thought that blasted into my head was
Oh good Lord, he’s having a Midlife Crisis!
I feared that the next thing you knew, he would be running around with the top two buttons of his shirt undone, and would be wearing gold chains. Yikes! I didn’t think I’d be able to stand it. Furthermore, we joined the local Corvette Club, and I was just certain that I was going to be surrounded by them – middle aged men, all going through a special sort of Midlife Hell – all hairy and trying to act waaayyyyy too young for their ages.
But you know what? Nothing could have been further from the truth. As it turns out, the members of the club were all just working folks like us, who had dreamed of owning a Corvette in their younger years, and now, finally, were in a position to purchase one. And they were still just working stiffs, making payments on their dream cars while polishing the paint off. Some of the nicest, most humble people you’d ever hope to meet, just enjoying driving and being together.
I am reminded of this because Jeremy had a beautiful diamond ring made for our 35th wedding anniversary this month. It’s quite a blingy thing, one any woman would be proud to wear. Back in the day, I can remember being envious of women who, at the time, appeared to be dripping in diamonds.
Don’t get me wrong – I love my new ring and all that it stands for. It touches my heart that it is custom made to represent our 3+ decades together. But I don’t give a S*#T who sees it, really. I have absolutely no need to impress anyone with bigger, better, more expensive “stuff!”
These days, we’re finding that we’ve moved beyond the Midlife Crisis. When we were younger, I think we were intent on climbing – on impressing others with our home, our accomplishments, our possessions. Now, we’ve reached an age where we’ve reevaluated, and all of that posturing just doesn’t matter anymore. Finally, we understand what is
The crisis, if there was one, is OVER!
Once again, I keep having those “if only we’d known then what we know now” moments. I hope we weren’t total jerks in our younger years – I don’t think we were, but ya never know! So how about it. Has anyone else successfully navigated the coming and going of the Midlife Crisis? I’d love it if you’d tell me your story!